Lessons on Performance & Growth with Olympic Gold Medalist

I sat down with Heather Moyse, a four time Olympian, two time Olympic gold medalist, World Rugby Hall of Famer, Antarctic climber and occupational therapist for a candid conversation about how real people reach extraordinary things. Below I share the highlights, stories, and practical lessons Heather uses with athletes, corporate leaders, parents, and teams to shift mindsets and unlock sustainable performance.

From small town beginnings to Olympic podiums

Heather’s story isn’t a tidy highlight reel that began with an early plan to be an Olympian. She didn’t start lifting weights until she was 27. She wasn’t raised in a household saturated with elite sport; Olympians were "TV people", not someone in her neighborhood. And yet, when a recruiter invited her to test for bobsledding, Heather showed up, broke a camp record and faced a simple choice: ignore a suddenly possible dream, or accept the discomfort required to see how far she could go.

She captures this paradox plainly: “It never occurred to me to try to go to the Olympics because Olympians were TV people.” That lack of exposure kept the possibility from forming until someone nudged it into view.

Why "comfort zone" is usually misunderstood

Heather is blunt about what really stops most of us: it isn’t pure physical fear. It’s the emotional, mental (sometimes silly) things we avoid. For her, it was the prospect of wearing full spandex in front of millions. For others it’s a limiting assumption: “I’m not qualified,” or “People will judge me.”

“It’s discomfort. We often mistake what that comfort zone is. A lot of people think it means laying on the couch. A lot of times it’s emotional and mental discomfort we’re avoiding.”

Her point: excuses are socially acceptable ways to avoid uncomfortable truths. Instead of blaming external conditions like “the gym was closed”, Heather asks people to take ownership: recognize what you’re actually protecting (vanity, identity, fear of judgment) and choose differently if you want to test your potential.

The Podium Process: Dream → Plan → Pursue → Perform

Heather uses a simple triangular model she calls the Podium Process to map how people move (or don’t) toward their goals:

• Dream — Everyone starts with a vision or a desire.

• Plan — Many dreams stall here because people never intentionally think through the steps.

• Pursue — Even with great plans, people often stop before action because of fear or perceived judgment.

• Perform — If you pursue and persist, you create opportunities to perform and improve.

This framework highlights the predictable spots where self sabotage creeps in and offers a clean roadmap for getting unstuck.

Burnout, recovery, and the value of built in rest

One theme Heather returns to constantly is recovery. In elite sport the higher you go, the more structured recovery becomes. Yet in business and daily life we rarely treat recovery with the same intention.

“Recovery is not passive. Recovery is active.”

She points out that generations before had natural recovery rhythms, weekly days of rest, fewer devices pulling attention, and now technology has erased many of those passive recovery moments. Her practical prescription is straightforward:

1. Be intentional about breaks and recovery activities.

2. Define what actually fills your bucket (not what looks productive on social media).

3. Set boundaries with technology and people where needed.

And a key reframing: burnout isn’t caused by long hours alone. If you spend long hours doing work that fills you and aligns with your values, you won’t burn out the same way as when you're drained by a job that doesn’t fit.

Parenting, sport, and unconditional support

Heather’s childhood shaped her perspective. Her parents prioritized character and family rhythms over hyper specialization. They told coaches up front that Sundays were family time and that any missed practices were their decision. A boundary rooted in values, not convenience.

Her advice to parents and guardians is both simple and radical:

“The best support you can give your kids is letting them know that they can stop at any time. Your love and support for them is not conditional on an outcome.”

That includes celebrating effort regardless of result and avoiding transactional support (only ice cream after wins). When support is unconditional, kids are free to explore, to quit, or to recommit without internalizing shame or turning sport into identity foreclosure.

Antarctica, shame, and choosing meaning

Heather didn’t plan to climb the highest mountain in Antarctica. A sponsorship invitation and a charity expedition turned into one of those opportunities she says she almost declined for practical reasons. When the sponsor asked if she’d commit, her initial reaction was financial concern. Then she felt ashamed: soldiers were risking everything to protect freedoms she enjoyed, and here she was calculating lost income.

She changed course, trained for crevasse rescue and crampons, and made the trip. The climb was physically demanding, but the most profound moment was meeting the soldiers the expedition aimed to support. One soldier hugged Heather and thanked her for representing the country. She confessed the moment humbled her into tears. Not because the mountain had been conquered, but because of the human connection and meaning that followed.

Practical takeaways you can use today

• Catch your self sabotage: ask what hidden emotional cost you’re avoiding before you accept a “reasonable” excuse.

• Test short term challenges. A short, intense commitment (Heather’s five month bobsled push) can be a powerful way to explore capability without forever altering your life.

• Make recovery active. Schedule intentional downtime activities that truly refill you.

• Parents: make support unconditional. Let kids quit and start again without making it a moral failing.

• Align choices with values. When values are clear, saying “no” becomes easy.

Where to find more from Heather Moyse

If you want to dive deeper into Heather’s work (speaking, coaching, or her book Redefining Realistic), reach out via her website or follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn.

Final thought

Heather’s message is direct and disarming: extraordinary outcomes aren’t reserved for a certain type of person. Often they’re the result of embracing a short, uncomfortable challenge, getting honest about why we avoid things, and learning to recover well. Dream clearly, plan intentionally, pursue with courage, and perform when given the chance. And remember that human connection and values will make the whole climb worthwhile.

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