Overcoming Entrepreneurial Challenges
- JM Ryerson
- Jun 19
- 4 min read

Entrepreneurship is a journey filled with highs and lows, victories and setbacks. Few stories capture this rollercoaster better than Stephen Scoggins’ remarkable transformation from homelessness to building and exiting multiple nine-figure companies. In this article, we dive deep into Stephen’s powerful insights on faith, mindset, emotional regulation, and the pitfalls that many entrepreneurs face. His story is not just one of success but of alignment—aligning mind, body, and soul to live a fulfilling and impactful life.
The Journey: From Rock Bottom to Founder
Stephen Scoggins’ early life was marked by hardship. Dropping out of high school at 17 to support his family during a difficult season, he found himself working odd jobs and battling emotional struggles. Yet, it was a mentor named Steve Mrick who planted seeds of hope and taught him invaluable lessons, including how to flip real estate and build wealth strategically.
Despite this guidance, Stephen’s path wasn’t linear. He experienced heartbreak, emotional heaviness, and even homelessness. But amid this darkness, he found faith—a turning point that sparked a shift. Returning to work under Steve’s mentorship, Stephen learned that building a business isn’t just about external success; it requires building oneself internally through emotional and spiritual growth.
“Every dumb decision I ever made came out of emotional dysregulation. Entrepreneurs often overlook the importance of building themselves while building their business.” – Stephen Scoggins
Faith: The Anchor Through Adversity
Faith, Stephen explains, is not simply believing when things are easy—it is tested when life feels its most challenging. True faith is “believing in a brighter future when your present circumstances tell you there’s no truth to it.” For entrepreneurs, this faith becomes the foundation for resilience and recalibration rather than mere survival.
Stephen shares that the crushing moments, like the embezzlement issue he faced, were part of the “cost of the calling.” Through these trials, faith was the fertile ground that allowed him to grow stronger and more aligned.
Recalibration Over Resilience
Instead of focusing on “resilience,” Stephen encourages entrepreneurs to embrace “recalibration”—a conscious process of realigning mindset, emotions, and actions in response to challenges. This allows entrepreneurs to avoid getting stuck in cycles of fear, arrogance, impatience, insecurity, and ignorance, which he identifies as the five common reasons entrepreneurs fail.
The Five Barriers to Entrepreneurial Success
Stephen highlights the five key emotional and mental barriers that hinder entrepreneurs:
Arrogance: The false belief that you have everything figured out, often driven by ego and insecurity.
Ignorance: Not knowing what you need to know and failing to seek the answers.
Impatience: The frustration of not being as far along as you think you should be, often fueled by a lack of gratitude.
Insecurity: Living and building your life based on past traumas and limiting beliefs.
Fear: The fear of failure or even success, which can paralyze action and growth.
To combat these, Stephen uses a simple but powerful framework of four questions to assess any situation:
What’s right?
What’s wrong?
What’s missing?
What’s confusing?
These questions guide entrepreneurs to clarity, growth, and action.
Hustle Culture Must Die: Embracing Presence and Focus
Stephen is a vocal critic of hustle culture—the relentless grind mentality that equates nonstop activity with success. Hustle culture, he explains, breeds insecurity and often sacrifices relationships, health, and identity. He shares a poignant story about his son asking him to be more present, illustrating that connection and presence matter far more than material success.
“The family that breeds a lifestyle that makes them happy is a connected family. Presence over pursuit.” – Stephen Scoggins
Instead of hustle, Stephen advocates for presence and focus:
Spend time daily in prayer, meditation, or grounding activities to center your mind, body, and soul.
Prioritize tasks by knocking down the most uncomfortable or important “domino” first.
Focus on compounding your efforts—turning one hour, one dollar, or one relationship into multiplied value over time.
Getting Into Your Body
Stephen also discusses the importance of “getting into your body” to manage stress and nervous system responses. Men, in particular, often struggle with this due to societal conditioning to suppress vulnerability. Grounding techniques like mindful breathing, walking barefoot on grass, or spending time in nature help regulate emotions and prepare you to face life’s challenges with calm and clarity.
Identity Beyond Business: Navigating the Exit and Grieving Process
After building a successful company over 25 years and exiting in 2023, Stephen candidly shares the emotional complexity of stepping away. He experienced a grieving process as his identity shifted from CEO and founder to a new chapter. It took about 18 months to feel “normal” again and to embrace a new mission beyond business.
This transition reinforced a vital lesson: your worth is not defined by your business or achievements. Instead, grounding yourself in who you are beyond your work is key to sustained fulfillment.
Alignment: The Key to Fulfillment and Success
At the heart of Stephen’s message is the importance of alignment—bringing mind, body, and soul into harmony. This alignment is the foundation for building successful businesses, healthy relationships, and meaningful lives. When you’re aligned, you become magnetic, attracting what you truly desire rather than what your fears or limiting beliefs dictate.
Stephen encourages everyone to take a moment for self-assessment. He offers a free quiz at stevenscoggins.com/alignment to help identify your current state of grounding and provide practical next steps toward alignment.
“You have to be willing to do today what others won’t, so you can have tomorrow what others don’t.” – Steve Mrick, Stephen’s mentor
Serve, Align, and Grow
Stephen’s journey teaches us that success isn’t just about money or titles—it’s about personal growth, faith, and true alignment. By facing your shadows, asking the right questions, and rejecting the false promises of hustle culture, you can create a life and business that not only thrive but also bring deep fulfillment.
Whether you’re an entrepreneur struggling to break through, someone seeking deeper faith, or simply wanting to live more aligned and present, Stephen’s insights offer a roadmap for transformation.
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